Goodbye to our Patriarch

• Posted on 28th April 2023
• in This-n-that
• by Dragonfly

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Dad and I talked endlessly about his wishes. What he wanted to do when he died. He knew it was coming sooner than he wanted but none of us expected December 5th, 2021 to come so soon. We had joked about “Weekend at Berny’s” and how he would love us to do that with him for Two Sisters bread. (TBH I almost begged to do it just because he would have laughed.)

He had fun ideas. And I’m never one to disappoint especially when it means he would get the last laugh. When we would all laugh knowing its exactly how he would want it. I’m going to set this up the best i can in written word but really, you had to be there. I know i can never do justice to the beauty that happened Friday Dec 10th 2021.

I tell you what. I have been on this post literally for over a year. It’s sitting there waiting for me to tell you everything. Here it is May of 2023 and I can’t seem to finish the post. I want to write everything out. but I just can’t seem to.

To be honest there were many upset about what dad wanted and that I carried It out. Maybe that is what stops me. Or maybe it is because I just want to keep it for me. I mean come to me in personally I will tell you all about it. But Here. Maybe not.

So I guess…. I just want to say goodbye to the man that named me.

See ya OLD man.

(long drawn out post Ive been trying to do for way to long)

Dragonfly out.